That goes for all major flash based video players. Is it really that difficult to understand this? Why do videos have to auto-load streaming? Video streaming should be user initiated! And give me a freakin 'Stop Loading' button, will you?!

I cannot believe they haven't thought of that yet! And if they have, they've got some really sadistic motives in not doing anything about it. I can't think of one (popular) streaming video player that has this. It's incredibly frustrating. And while I realize that I'm cribbing now mainly because I'm on a limited-data plan, but it's always been a pain in my ass.

Please, please help pass on this request to the people who can do something about it!