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Aviraj Saluja

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Oct 4 / 10:47pm

You Can't Do What You Want By Doing Something Else

One observation set me back. There are lots of people who wanted to do one thing but then got "practical" and did something else "first." The idea was that they'd be successful and sock away money doing the practical thing, and after that they could go back to the thing they loved. Bronson was sure that, among the hundreds of people that he interviewed, someone would actually have been successful with this strategy. It sounds so reasonable, after all.

But he encountered exactly zero people who pulled it off. Everyone who tried got sucked into the "practical" career and were never able to extract themselves from it. Too comfortable, too many expectations from friends and family, too easy just to keep doing what you're doing.

via artima.com found via @sivers

I cannot begin to explain how much I needed to read this. It’s like this article was written just for me. This changes perspectives for me. This article addresses the eternal question – “Should I really go for it?” This article is about building the gumption to leave what you’re doing and change your life. Make it what you want it to be. Because if you don’t make it change, it won’t change.

It’s hard. It’s hard to consciously bring yourself to a point where uncertainty rules your life. But you have to look at people around you who’ve done that and take inspiration. Then make that inspiration work for you. Despite all the resistance that will come along the way. That’s what I’m trying to do. This article goes on to say:

There's a quote that appears again and again in various forms: "close one door, another opens." It seems like magical thinking until you see it happen. And it only happens when you don't leave the door partially open, but instead firmly close it. For some reason, being certain that you're ready to move on does cause some kind of magic to happen, and I don't know why.

This doesn’t mean my life will magically change all of a sudden. It will be a long and hard battle – against my mind. And I will need to keep re-reading this article to remind me of my priorities.

I’ve been fortunate to be reading some really inspiring stuff lately, from people that I hugely admire. I intend to share them with you along with my thoughts on them. For now, do yourself a favor and read this amazing piece of text here.

Good luck.

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8 comments

Oct 05, 2009
Brent Hopkins said...
particularly if you are single with no kids. Go for it, full throttle.
Oct 05, 2009
Kipling Monkey said...
Thank you for this reminder. Thank you.
Oct 10, 2009
girish said...
aviraj, thank you...looks like I am going to be over here more often...
Oct 11, 2009
Nidhi Thakkar said...
Aviraj, so so true, i say it to myself everyday and then I forget and move straight ahead. This is a beautiful post!
Oct 24, 2009
Larry Smith said...
thanks for this post
Dec 09, 2009
Preethi said...
Wow.. I loved this blogpost too.. I remember that I was goin thru a time in my life when I needed to close a door.. and when I read that blog article.. it was like .. whoa.. thats me! Totally stupefying!
Dec 21, 2009
Cali Harris said...
Avi, you are SPOT ON. It's neither easy nor quick to "go for it." And that's just the thing...It too easy to forget that going for it, even when making one or two big, bold moves, still takes time and lots of smaller, peripheral & parallel decisions. Thanks for sharing! And I'll definitely be checking out that article.
Jan 21, 2010
I enjoyed reading this but at the same time, I didn't. I am one of those people who did the practical thing first. I did it because I didn't know what exactly I wanted to do at the time. Not only did I do it, but I did the practical thing well and I've made good money at it. I have an established career.

Now that I am older and tired of forcing myself to get up everyday to go work for someone else, I find it impossible to get off of the path that I created for myself. I make too much money to stop at my age. (33) I have responsibilities, bills and no savings.

I was wondering if you read anywhere about how people like myself can make the switch without loosing over half of their income? Now, that would be magic!

I knew I should have married rich :) lol.

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